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Gossip Harms

I’ve got a couple of people who I dislike. They annoy me , they’re horrible, they think they’re amazing , the list goes on.  And sometimes we can be tempted to put them down by gossiping , spreading rumours and being horrible about them ourselves. But that makes you no better than them. You miss out on all the good things about friendship like laughing and messing about and talking about your life if you are always putting down someone else’s life. I guess this is a little link to my other post from October, Just Have Fun Already!. Although you do feel great about yourself when you put someone down, you’ll feel even better if you were known as the one who was positive about everyone rather the one who hates everyone. I’ll admit it, when I gossip about someone I do it behind their back, I avoid every possible means of confrontation. I hate facing someone. But these days I’m going to try and keep my negative words about people to the minimum.

How can you do it?? I looked at all the people I dislike at the best of times and found that they had problems whether it was that they had lots of brothers and sisters or because their parents were very young and found that most of them did have severe problems.  Most of the time if they are attention seeking it’s because they either have to fight through lots of siblings to be heard or they normally have their parents full and devoted attention and when they are at school or work they feel like they need the full attention again. After you’ve found the issue you’ve only fought half the battle. You need to accept them for who they are and begin to tell them what is wrong about what they are doing. I guess that sounds like something you would say to a toddler but you’ll be making them a better person because of it. If you really think you never want to be friends, at least be civil to them and don’t keep generating hate. Even if their not civil back whatever your age, gossiping is really immature and that’s why I’m trying to quit.  If everyone else hates them to and they try to cling to you think about what it would be like if you had no one who liked you, would you drift about on your own or would you seek desperately to fit in somewhere. See life from their eyes.

Backstabbers :(

Opinions don’t change in a day but if they hurt someone why not keep them to yourself?

from Susie xxx

At the moment I’ve got some pretty big choices coming up. I’ve got my subject choice coming up.I have to whittle away the subjects I don’t need or want and I have to find the subjects that I want to do in future. Literacy and Maths are compulsory but from there I’ve got 6 subjects to take. Luckily I’ve already got a rough idea of what I want to take so it won’t be an extremely hard decision but it’s a choice all the same.

Choices are hard. Occasionally if you’re taking a big step , you have to think long and hard about it. I had 2 years to think about what school I was going to,it was probably my hardest decision so far. One was the school where all my friends were going and the other was one with great education but I wouldn’t know anyone there.
So I wondered and my opinion would waver between choices and eventually I went to the school with the better education. But I still managed to keep my friends :).

Though what I’m really bad at is the little decisions, ones that at the time you don’t think about but sometimes you can severely regret later .

So my new years resolution for 2012 is to care for the small choices too. What’s your 2012 resolution?
Susie xx

Yeah its delayed , I have been so lazy this holiday and now I’m back at school with exams :S did you all have a good Christmas , I got some great stuff ! Mumford & Sons sigh no more (<3) and a onezie and some other stuff .

I’m Dreaming of a White Christmas

I’m dreaming of a white christmas this year. Why? Because it’s too warm for snow.I went out today and it felt more like April instead of December which was dissapointing. I mean I do hate the cold but christmas doesn’t feel like christmas without the white stuff. I had a vision of me and my family sitting out on our decking in the snow all wrapped up eating warm turkey and veg. It’ll be weird to not see the kids trailing about with their sledges behind them. And last year after school we would come home from school and get into our sallepettes and we would go sledging always scared that we were going to fall into the burn which lies at the bottom of the hill. And that was our only way of burning off all that fatty food which we ate around the christmas period. Last year the first day of snow that year was on my birthday which was really  special for me.  It raises doubts, if I have children, will they ever see snow in Britain?How many years will it be until I see snow again?

Susie xx

 

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